Need To Separate Fact from Fiction, Need to Separate Wishful Thinking from Facts

• A 1 year, 364 days old infant does not need a ticket on the plane but a 2 year old does. It’s the law.
• The minimum age is 7 days old for any infant to travel on a plane, an important criterion for an IVF child born to international parents wanting to go back home. Emotions don’t count but laws do.
• Any infant under 6 months travelling on a plane needs 1 adult with them – particularly important if twins are born to a parent who is travelling alone. More relevant for an international IVF parent who is trying to go home with IVF twins or triplets – higher frequency than natural births. Emotions don’t count, it’s the law.
• Immigration law requires a biological link between parent and child – emotions don’t count, it’s the law.
• Immigrant fathers cannot bring their IVF child to US-  emotions don’t count, it’s the law.
• Alienated parents love their child equally, more importantly, the child loves the parent equally but the best interest of the child does not count.
• Baby scoop era was detrimental and served no real purpose, existence of single mothers and truth and reconciliation commissions have proved it.
• The plight of Scottsboro boys is wrong, their pardons prove it. The case spawned new laws for due process and inclusion of African Americans on jury prove their innocence. When will due process and immigrant, IVF jury be allowed for immigrant IVF parents?
• When I see an abandoned IVF daughter, I see the criminal who did this.
• When I see an abandoned IVF daughter in legal limbo, I see the criminal who did this.
• When I see an IVF daughter try to move forward in life but has no legal identity, I see the criminal who did this.
• When I see an IVF child in legal limbo, I see the criminal who abused before.
• When I see an IVF infant being starved for food, I see the criminal lying and abusing the child.
• If breastfeeding by males is so common, why don’t mothers ask the fathers of their newborns to breastfeed?
• Regardless whether it’s a male or female trying to breastfeed an infant, when there is no milk, is it abuse if you make the infant cry endlessly out of hunger? What else is food for an infant other than milk?
• Having been diagnosed with interex/DSD condition is very traumatic, being forced to live a life of secrecy and lies, breaking laws, why repeat that on innocent IVF children who are no less dealt with their own secrecy, stigma, lies, breaking laws to deal with?
• While every human deserves a child, while every parent wishes to breastfeed their child, we still have to deal with science.

There is truth in acceptance and abuse in lies on oneself and others whom you claim to love the most.